tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post2510912539724478503..comments2023-10-28T02:28:17.046-05:00Comments on Eating, Drinking, and Being Married: This just needs to be said.Teresahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03238396857980762279noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-81623794802758470572009-01-23T14:59:00.000-06:002009-01-23T14:59:00.000-06:00Okay I can see if you have a super tight group of ...Okay I can see if you have a super tight group of girls like in SATC and Samantha has a party and doesn't invite Miranda that Miranda would be upset but if its just a random friend like Stanford I don't think He would have any right to get upset for not being invited. Did that make any sense at all? I guess what I'm trying to say is that if it's not a super tight friend that is upset that you didn't invite them then I wouldn't let it get to you. Plus like Rhonda said if they wanted to hang out with you so bad they would invite you to their house.Schneiderdoodlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03486288613051274929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-2637083637662082072009-01-20T12:04:00.000-06:002009-01-20T12:04:00.000-06:00What?!! You didn't invite me to something??!!Dude...What?!! You didn't invite me to something??!!<BR/><BR/>Dude, whatevs. I have 2 opinions on that kinda thing. <BR/>1) The hostess/planner/activty director always gets bitched at for something. AKA you can't please everyone.<BR/>2) If you want to hang out w/ Teresa so bad, have a party at your place and invite people. AKA lead by example.Rhondahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16024301690404291813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-52500681687985598782009-01-19T16:04:00.000-06:002009-01-19T16:04:00.000-06:00awww, Teresa! i hope you feel better now that you...awww, Teresa! i hope you feel better now that you've gotten that all off your chest. i completely agree with everything Lisa said 110%. honestly though... can you blame people for wanting to hang out with such a great hostess? :)Pamelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08067765494382613706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-71237965847177896762009-01-19T13:39:00.000-06:002009-01-19T13:39:00.000-06:00Alright, I seriously think someone needs to put a ...Alright, I seriously think someone needs to put a "I heart Teresa" shirt up on Zazzle or CafePress stat!<BR/>:D<BR/><BR/>Oh, and if I didn't say it Saturday, Teresa, the food you made to go with the wine was fabulous! Thanks for making that for all of us!seberuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17103222168731025753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-23960735396380955952009-01-19T12:11:00.000-06:002009-01-19T12:11:00.000-06:00Eeek! I'm guilty!! I know I said something on Sat....Eeek! I'm guilty!! I know I said something on Sat...giving you grief... I was drinking and joking and after reading this I totally see how it could be upsetting and I sincerely apologize.<BR/>I completely understand all your points, and I would never expect to be invited to everyone's everything. I had been invited to something before and hadn't been able to make it and that's how it came up, but I know that I razzed you and Kristal about it (although I don't remember what I said... damn wine), but whatever it was, I was not meant to be taken seriously, but I can understand how it could be a difficult situation for you, so I promise not to give you crap for it ever again! Sorry sweetie... it's not my fault you're so cool and such a good cook, though... :)N.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00365725118509670512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-32202606180266993412009-01-19T11:46:00.000-06:002009-01-19T11:46:00.000-06:00LOL Trisha, people spell it wrong ALL the time. It...LOL Trisha, people spell it wrong ALL the time. It only bothers me when I feel like they should know better. Like co-workers and family that see my name in print all the time.Teresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03238396857980762279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-70819828879631732602009-01-19T11:45:00.000-06:002009-01-19T11:45:00.000-06:00P.S.S. I just saw Kristal's post about your beer ...P.S.S. I just saw Kristal's post about your beer cheese soup. Ric made some of that last weekend for our friend Peter's going away party. Honestly, <I>I'm</I> not a big fan (just don't like the taste). . .but it was a big hit!Trishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00954511784966357667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-85250458515625139482009-01-19T11:41:00.000-06:002009-01-19T11:41:00.000-06:00P.S. I'm on my way out the door RIGHT now to find...P.S. I'm on my way out the door RIGHT now to find my "I PUFFY-heart Teresa"!! (I will make sure I spell it right this time too!)Trishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00954511784966357667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-31510955305432171392009-01-19T11:40:00.000-06:002009-01-19T11:40:00.000-06:00Well said, ma'am. :)I don't know why you feel bad...Well said, ma'am. :)<BR/><BR/>I don't know why you feel bad. I should feel bad! I have NEVER been able to have any of you glorious women over to my home! (Well, I don't think anyone really wants to drive to IL anyway. Plus, we live in a small apt.) One of these days I'm going to MAKE YOU come visit me though. BUT, Ric will be doing the cooking, not me!!! BTW: I think you would LOVE Ric!! ;)Trishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00954511784966357667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-57161398229036296452009-01-19T11:36:00.001-06:002009-01-19T11:36:00.001-06:00Amen, sister! I feel like I have used that line m...Amen, sister! I feel like I have used that line many, many times. Everyone can't be invited to everything. That is life...get over it!<BR/><BR/>Maybe people think that you are hosting mini-GNO's at your house and inviting some and not others. I can't think of any other reason people could be confused. They don't understand that you are getting together with a group of friends (that also happen to go to GNOs).<BR/><BR/>And WHO THE HELL approaches you and asks why they aren't invited. Strange, in my opinion...and rude!<BR/><BR/>I know how you are feeling because I have dealt with that in my own social group. Peoples' feelings get hurt when a small group of us do dinner at a friend's house but dinner for 6 and dinner for 12 is a HUGE difference.<BR/><BR/>Feel better...and DON'T feel bad!LChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01951071009449020743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-32553563296721160242009-01-19T11:36:00.000-06:002009-01-19T11:36:00.000-06:00Teresa - It does seem like a lot of people always ...Teresa - It does seem like a lot of people always ask you about you about that, which does seem (IMHO) slighty rude (I would just never bring it up - it's your business not mine). However, I truly don't think they mean it that way.<BR/><BR/>Having said that though, if I were you I would be totally sick of answering that question and completely understand the need to put it out there and avoid the uncomfortable conversation that seems unavoidable for you.<BR/><BR/>You are an awesome person and everybody DOES love Teresa. No worries, girlie! <BR/><BR/>Man, I'm so verbose today - LOL.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16374394837838436123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-43335333318540575602009-01-19T11:23:00.000-06:002009-01-19T11:23:00.000-06:00Lisa, You were able to bring up some additional ve...Lisa, <BR/><BR/>You were able to bring up some additional very good points and I appreciate that. <BR/><BR/>It has just been really hard fielding questions (yes, people have asked) of why some people get invited and others don't, so I just want to get my true feelings out there so everyone can see my point of view.Teresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03238396857980762279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-69746917707689469392009-01-19T11:15:00.000-06:002009-01-19T11:15:00.000-06:00Teresa - I don't know what to say to this except.....Teresa - I don't know what to say to this except...don't feel bad!! Being a constant hostess comes with its drawbacks (like not always being able to invite EVERYONE).<BR/><BR/>I can't speak for anyone else, but while I wouldn't classify your group of close friends a "clique", there have been some strong friendships formed. Yipee! Yay! Awesome! I have a great group of girlfriends too. Who cares? To feel threatened by that is silly in my opinion.<BR/><BR/>I have no idea who you feel might have been "offended" by not being included on one of your gatherings, but let me just say that I feel that is the minority. As someone who has a very busy life of her own, I just wouldn't have the time or energy to be concerned with something so trivial.<BR/><BR/>If you love your "home gatherings" keep doing them and try not to let the rest of it bother you. Life is too short :).<BR/><BR/>And, I totally hear you on the time and money it takes to organize a get together - no matter how big or small.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16374394837838436123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-52117858886850117712009-01-19T10:58:00.000-06:002009-01-19T10:58:00.000-06:00Thanks Angie!!I love GNOs, but I never feel like I...Thanks Angie!!<BR/><BR/>I love GNOs, but I never feel like I get to talk to everyone. Sometimes there are just so many people, it's hard to talk to everyone.Teresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03238396857980762279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6421740906958609009.post-15892763408767907932009-01-19T10:54:00.000-06:002009-01-19T10:54:00.000-06:00Now I wanna get an "I love Teresa" t-shirt. Wouldn...Now I wanna get an "I love Teresa" t-shirt. Wouldn't that be funny!<BR/><BR/>I totally understand where you're coming from tho. Hosting that many people is a huge ordeal. You gotta clean (at least I feel compelled to majorly clean when I have peeps over), and it isn't cheap at all. <BR/><BR/>I didn't get to talk with you that much but I meant to tell you that your food was amazing!Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02255120847975344417noreply@blogger.com